Sevgili O\u011flum,<\/p>\n
Neden bilmem, bug\u00fcn b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey yazmak istedim.<\/p>\n
Ama l\u00fctfen sen bunu yaln\u0131zca bir yaz\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rme.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu, sana b\u0131rakmak istedi\u011fim bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme bi\u00e7imi asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n
Unutma, hayat sana \u00e7ok \u015fey vaat edecek.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015far\u0131, g\u00fc\u00e7, h\u0131z, kazan\u00e7\u2026<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n Ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sana neyin de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemeyecek.<\/p>\n O y\u00fczden \u00f6nce \u015funu bilmeni isterim:<\/p>\n **Her \u015fey m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir, ama her \u015fey de\u011ferli de\u011fildir.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Ben sana g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ol demiyorum.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u0130nsanlar g\u00fcc\u00fc, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na \u00fcst\u00fcn gelmek zanneder.<\/p>\n Oysa ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7 \u015fudur:<\/p>\n **Kendine h\u00e2kim olabilmek.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u00d6fkeliyken susabilmek,<\/p>\n Hakl\u0131yken ba\u011f\u0131rmamak,<\/p>\n Kaybedebilecekken bile do\u011fruyu se\u00e7mek\u2026<\/p>\n Bunlar s\u00f6ylenmesi kolay, yapmas\u0131 ise olduk\u00e7a zor \u015feylerdir.<\/p>\n Ama kal\u0131c\u0131 olan budur.<\/p>\n Hayat sana h\u0131z \u00f6\u011fretecek.<\/p>\n Herkes h\u0131zl\u0131 olan\u0131 alk\u0131\u015flayacak.<\/p>\n H\u0131zl\u0131 karar veren, h\u0131zl\u0131 y\u00fckselen, h\u0131zl\u0131 kazanan\u2026<\/p>\n Ama sen \u015funu unutma:<\/p>\n **H\u0131zl\u0131 olmak, her zaman do\u011fru olmak demek de\u011fildir.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Bazen durmak gerekir.<\/p>\n Bazen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek gerekir.<\/p>\n Bazen \u201cbilmiyorum\u201d diyebilmek gerekir.<\/p>\n Derinlik, h\u0131zdan daha de\u011ferlidir.<\/p>\n \u0130nsanlarla ilgili sana en \u00f6nemli \u015feyi s\u00f6yleyeyim:<\/p>\n Herkes g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n Ama herkesin g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen kendince \u00f6nemli bir y\u00fck\u00fc vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n O y\u00fczden:<\/p>\n Kimseyi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme.<\/p>\n Kimseyi gereksiz yere yarg\u0131lama.<\/p>\n Ve kimseyi yaln\u0131zca g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcne g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirme.<\/p>\n **\u0130nsanlar\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anlamak, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hakl\u0131 olmaktan daha de\u011ferlidir.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Bir g\u00fcn ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olursan\u2014ki olman\u0131 \u00e7ok ama \u00e7ok isterim\u2014<\/p>\n \u015eunu sak\u0131n unutma:<\/p>\n Ba\u015far\u0131, sana daha fazla hak vermez.<\/p>\n Yaln\u0131zca sana daha fazla sorumluluk verir.<\/p>\n E\u011fer bir g\u00fcn insanlar seni dinlerse,<\/p>\n **Onlara h\u00fckmetmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, onlar\u0131 korumak i\u00e7in konu\u015f.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Hayatta sana en \u00e7ok zarar verecek \u015feylerden biri \u015fudur:<\/p>\n Yanl\u0131\u015f \u015feylerde \u0131srar etmek.<\/p>\n Bazen vazge\u00e7mek gerekir.<\/p>\n Bazen geri ad\u0131m atmak gerekir.<\/p>\n Bazen \u201cbu do\u011fru de\u011fil\u201d diyebilmek gerekir.<\/p>\n Unutma:<\/p>\n **Kaybetmek her zaman ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k de\u011fildir ama yanl\u0131\u015fta \u0131srar etmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00f6yledir.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Kendinle ilgili \u015funu bil:<\/p>\n Herkes seni sevmeyecek. Ben seni \u00f6mr\u00fcm boyunca sevecek olsam da…<\/p>\n Herkes seni anlamayacak. Ben seni anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsam da…<\/p>\n Bu normal.<\/p>\n Ama \u00f6nemli olan \u015fu:<\/p>\n **Sen kendine sayg\u0131 duyabiliyor musun?**<\/strong><\/p>\n **Sen kendini sevebiliyor musun?**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n E\u011fer cevab\u0131n evetse,<\/p>\n Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc o kadar \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. Ve ben de ger\u00e7ekten seni yeti\u015ftirebilmi\u015fimdir.<\/p>\n Ve son olarak\u2026<\/p>\n Bir g\u00fcn ben olmayaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n Ama sana \u015funu b\u0131rakmak istiyorum:<\/p>\n Ne yaparsan yap,<\/p>\n Nas\u0131l bir hayat kurarsan kur,<\/p>\n \u0130yi bir insan olmaktan vazge\u00e7me.**<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnya, ak\u0131ll\u0131 insanlarla dolu.<\/p>\n Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlarla dolu.<\/p>\n G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insanlarla dolu.<\/p>\n Ama ger\u00e7ekten iyi insanlar ya da bunca k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe ra\u011fmen iyi olmay\u0131 se\u00e7enler\u2026<\/p>\n Her zaman azd\u0131r.<\/p>\n E\u011fer bir g\u00fcn karars\u0131z kal\u0131rsan,<\/p>\n Kendine \u015fu soruyu sor:<\/p>\n Bu bana g\u00fc\u00e7 m\u00fc veriyor, yoksa do\u011fru mu?<\/p>\n Do\u011fru cevab\u0131 y\u00fcre\u011finin derinliklerinde bulacaks\u0131n:)<\/p>\n Ve m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse\u2026<\/p>\n Do\u011fruyu se\u00e7 ve do\u011fru yoldan ayr\u0131lma.<\/p>\n Seni seviyorum ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bireyle gurur duyuyorum.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n Ben senden raz\u0131y\u0131m, Allah da senden raz\u0131 olsun…<\/p>\n T\u00fcm dualar\u0131m seninle,<\/p>\n Baban<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sevgili O\u011flum, Neden bilmem, bug\u00fcn b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey yazmak istedim. Ama l\u00fctfen sen bunu yaln\u0131zca bir yaz\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu, sana b\u0131rakmak istedi\u011fim bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme bi\u00e7imi asl\u0131nda. Unutma, hayat sana \u00e7ok \u015fey vaat edecek. Ba\u015far\u0131, g\u00fc\u00e7, h\u0131z, kazan\u00e7\u2026 Ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sana neyin de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemeyecek. 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